Are We Really Ready?
Both man and woman are priviledged by nature with different yet similar, but huge potential for living. But Maybe because we aren’t matured enough to fill the shoes, designed for the true mankind , Mankind is never justified. A lot of people think an essay on women and their rights would include the amount of struggle a girl has to face and how suppressed they are from the male counterpart in getting to power and staying there but I go just beyond that thick and high wall and dig deep below the foundation.
Perhaps the gender equality and equity thing have struck through each brain at some point of time. And there is a huge outcry for this. But have we realized one thing? Only if women were more powerful at all front than men, Would men be writing essays on Men Empowerment? The problem I see is the egoistic attitude in both gender; One has been ruling and other willing to dethrone. When I want my daughter to be the boss of her family, Why do I want to be the boss of mine? Why do I want anyone bossing a family, rather than enjoy witnessing everyone staying mutually happy in harmony.
A person like Donald trump, In my sole personal opinion, was helped in being US president as a consequence to the fact that he was challenged by a woman. New constitution, new laws and urban life ensures a lot of positivity in favor of gender equality, But I wonder if the representation is very slim or the world requires a little bit more time to climb the threshold. A statue is kept in the temples and prayed, but a woman is no statue to keep there and politicize on them. Choosing a boy over a girl as a child, starts the series of emptiness in humanity. It is not about letting women rise, rather it is about giving fair chance to both gender in every aspect.
I was talking once with a friend, girl, about how she is unwanted and caged in her childhood. That is the real facade of our social life. It is not at all difficult to understand how painful moments, on a physical and mental note, a girl has to survive in her life. And the skill of a woman in nourishing happiness and knowledge to the world is visibly godly. It doesn’t matter if a man feels a woman should be given priority, The theme required here is the sense, from
within, to comprehend how man and woman are equally strong to challenge each rise in the stairs of life.
As a witness to the Nepali society and a part of it, Nepal is in transition and the fear a woman feels on the streets of being bullied or being raped, are the collection of problems. In fact, These challenges are not only Nepal’s but changes can start from here, If not from anywhere else. A stone doesn’t have a face, but the beauty doesn’t only reside there. I am just playing the example game, to criticize the face value of gender issues on the surface, Since it demands overall supervision and implementation. A woman is not weaker than man to beg for anything; She is not equal to all men, She is even stronger. Are we really ready? Gaze within how changed are we and how ready are we!
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मिती : November, 2018
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